They will be the greatest happyness you have ever known and the greatest pain you will experience.
they will make you proud and they will reduce you to a worried mess
they will turn your world upside down and you will be glad and annoyed at the same time.
They can make a great relationship better and destroy a bad relationship.
Some people who have kids shouldn't and some who can't should.
And all the advice and information from others wont help you a bit, you have to try it find out....
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